REGRET

We have all opened our eyes in the mornings, with regrets of either having done something or not having done something. Regrets are those instances where either our heart works but body fails to do so or, are those instances where our body works but brain fails to filter it.

With such a wide spectrum of outcomes of good and bad, how do we choose to either do it or not do it?
How do we choose the outcome? How do we know if the choice we are about to make is right or wrong?

We don't!!
We do it anyways.
A great man once said, "Whenever there's an argument between the mind and the heart, follow your heart."
Why is that?
It's Because, the heart is talking to you about what you want while your mind is talking to you about what others want.
It's okay to be selfish enough to think and act on what we want, rather than think about what others want.

The most common phrase used by people  when you're in doubt is, "Do it, or you'll regret it your entire life and life's too short for regrets".

I say, "Do it, because when in regret, life's too LONG"
You will begin to experience Einstein's Theory Of Relativity with reference to time and you will feel it's effect. Minutes will feel like hours, and days will feel like years. Every second you live in regret, might be equivalent to an hour in satisfaction.

Like Les Brown says, the graveyard might be the richest place with hidden emotions  on earth, because it's filled with people who lived their life's with regrets, doubts, and untold ideas and stories, which if were committed to the world, the world would have been a better place.

Bottom line being,
You miss someone, call them.
You love someone, tell them.
You want to punch someone, punch them.
You live in a toxic environment, leave it.
Any emotion you are holding back, give wings to it and let it fly, for the most happiest birds are the ones that learnt to fly.

Comments

  1. Unknown23 February 2018 at 08:20

    First of all.
    ❤️ super sexy write up!
    .
    "heart is talking to you about what you want while your mind is talking to you about what others want."
    Second half of it..I don't think it works that way..?!

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